Over the years I have befriended some fairly successful people and nearly every one of them throws the same old adage at me for their success.
"Hard work. That's how I became successful. I worked harder than everyone else. If you're competition is working 12 hours a day, you have to work 15!"
But that can't be the only reason. Seriously? We all work hard, but in order to be more successful than others, certain things need to happen. Is it luck? People resent the idea that luck played any part in their success. Why?
"It's insulting for you to say that I was lucky. I wasn't lucky. It was my hard work that led to success."
Really? I don't think so... it isn't all about just the hard work. Often it's about who you know and your contacts. And it also depends upon where you're born. I live in a very nice area of Los Angeles and I see my friends setting up their children to be successful by putting them in front of the right people. It's what you do if you're looking out for your kids. But how successful would these young people be in a different environment? How well off would they be if they lived in Gardena, Huntington Park, or Fontana? Hard work or just born in the right area and lucky to have great parents? Maybe all three?
Our nation is oddly divided, but the majority of us are in the same boat. We aren't ultra rich but many of us wished we were. We all don't have a great job, but we wish we did. Many of us are struggling just to survive in a corporate world that rewards those on the top and villifies those on the bottom. Last year I was at a national training meeting and the president of corporate sales opened the conference with this line, "If you're not first you're last. Nobody cares who comes in second. If you're second then you're a loser...I love me some Ricky Bobby." So do I, but it's a movie and it's a comedy. It's not reality!
So how do we get to be number one? How do we climb the corporate ladder? Is it really hard work? Yes and no. If you want to move up quickly start by working hard and finish by kissing some major ass with everybody at the corporate office. From the people at the front desk to the people sweeping the floors, you need to speak to anyone and everyone that will listen to your story. Here's five quick tips on how to move up.
- Be Uber Positive - Corporate people love it when you give positive feedback. In fact, one question I received during an interview for a management position was, "How do you implement a corporate directive that you don't agree with?" Initially, I thought to say, "I don't. I call bullshit when I see it." But you can't do that if you want to move up. If you're a corporate climber, tell the higher ups they're doing the right thing and try to find a silver lining amidst the messaging.
- Ask For Mentorship - People who are in positions of power, lover to be admired. And if you show deference and ask for career guidance, they will love you for it! The quickest way to get promoted is to become a "mini-me" of someone in a leadership position. As long as you produce, you're bound to move up...even if you're a bit of a f#$% up.
- Promote Yourself - I have seen people who aren't very good at their jobs fall upwards because whenever they did do something right, they let everyone know about it. Early in my career at Cintas, there was one service manager who always had great ideas, but never had great numbers. So how did he get promoted to GM...self promotion. Anytime he had an idea, he reached out to the area vice president, and suddenly we were all following his lead. Even though his performance wasn't great, he was promoted to general manager long before people who were much more deserving.
- Become A Drinking Buddy - I am not a big drinker. I enjoy beer and wine, but I cannot hang out with people all night and drink. I have a tendency to fall asleep. Consequently, I never buddied up to the bar with some of the senior leaders who could consume more alcohol than a hand sanitizer factory. However, some of my friends discovered if they hung out with the corporate hierarchy, they could leverage those late nights into fast promotions. Belly up to the bar, and you might be hungover but you can still climb over a few sober people to get that promotion!
- Suck Up, Suck Up, Move Up - In 6 years, I saw someone go from an intern to regional manager at a major healthcare company, and he hadn't yet turned 30. How? He basically sucked up to everyone in the corporate offices who could influence his career. He only had one good year, just one, but because he was kissing everyone's butt, when a promotion came up, he was on the short list. Keep in mind, he wasn't ready for a leadership role, but he got it because he networked with marketing, contracting, R&D, and anyone who would listen. No one is going to promote you, if they don't know you, no matter how hard you work.